Wednesday, 16 December 2015

Hypocrite society

Today morning while watching the news channel in cafeteria, I saw this headlines “Nirbhaya ki 3 saal barsi”. The second thought which came in my mind is “Hypocrite society” in which we live.

Whole nation was mourning and was talking about how gruesome and heinous crime these rapist have committed. People were suggesting the strictest and even barbaric punishments for them. Agreed. Your anger is valid and rightly, it should be there in you, after listening the horrifying & nerve chilling story of “Nirbhaya”.

But then what disturbs me more is, even after “Nirbhaya” episode this country have seen many rapes. Some national statistics are shown below. The following numbers are cumulative figures for the years 2011, 2012 and 2013.
Type
Cases Registered
Cases convicted
Persons arrested
Persons Convicted
Pending trials (End of 2013)
States
79706
11980
98,350
16457
93,356
UTs
3130
756
3760
980
2375
Total (All-India)
82836
12736
102110
17437
95731

Data Sources
Ministry of Home Affairs
http://www.censusindia.gov.in/
https://factly.in/rape-cases-in-india-statistics-has-anything-changed-after-the-nirbhaya-incident-part-1/
It is worth noting that
  • §  Eighty two thousand eight hundred and thirty six (82,836) Cases were registered over three years that is 2011, 2012 and 2013.
  • §  Over the last three years, 75 cases of Rape were registered every day across the country.
  • §  That is an average of 3 cases being registered every hour.
  • §  On an average over the three years, 93 persons were arrested every day on charges of rape.
  • §  That is an average of 4 persons being arrested every hour.
  • §  There are Ninety Five thousand Seven hundred and Thirty one (95731) Pending trials as of 2013 in courts all over the country.




Year on Year Comparative Analysis
Year
Cases registered
Cases Registered per day
Cases convicted
Cases Convicted per day
Persons arrested
Persons arrested per day
Cases registered per 1 lakh women
2011
24206
66
4072
11
28878
80
4
2012
24923
68
3563
9
31117
85
4
2013
33707
92
5101
14
42115
115
5
Average
27612
76
4245
12
34037
93
4

Year
Persons convicted
Persons Convicted Per day
Conviction Rate in %
Pending trials
2011
5724
15
26.4
79476
2012
4821
13
24.2
86032
2013
6892
19
27.1
95731
Average
5812
16
26

It is worth noting that
  • §  From the year 2011 to 2012 the number of cases registered increased by 3%. But from 2012 to 2013 the number of cases saw a big jump of increase by 35%. The public outrage that followed the Nirbhaya incident seems to have had at least one concrete positive outcome, i.e. increased reporting of crimes.
  • §  The cases convicted over the years 2011 to 2012 saw a decline of 12.5% even though the number of cases saw a marginal increase over the two years. Then again from 2012 to 2013 the number of cases convicted rose by 43%.
  • §  The number of persons arrested from 2011 to 2012 rose by 7.75% and following the trend of substantial rise of figures from 2012 to 2013, number of persons arrested increased by 35% from 2012 to 2013
  • §  The number of persons convicted declined by 15% from 2011 to 2012 and rose significantly by 43% from 2012 to 2013
  • §  The highest conviction rate in the three years is observed for 2013 which is 12% over the 2012 conviction rate.
  • §  Pending Trials have only increased year by year. Despite setting up Fast track courts after the Nirbhaya incident, the pending trials have not shown any decline from 2012 to 2013.
  • §  Number of cases registered per 1 lakh women remained constant at around 4 cases for 2011 and 2012 and it went up to 5 cases per 1 lakh women which again clearly shows the trend of increased reporting of crimes.
  • §  On an average 93 persons were arrested per day over the period of 2011 to 2013.
  • §  With respect to trials completed in a year , 16 persons were convicted every day on an average for the years 2011-2013


In Focus – Delhi
In the recent years, Delhi has earned itself the reputation of being the ‘Rape Capital’. While this claim cannot be completely refuted, the data does not suggest otherwise.
Cases Registered
Year
2011
2012
2013
Total
Average
Cases Registered
572
706
1636
2914
971
Change from previous year
23.40%
131%
Deviation from Average
-41%
-27%
68%
(Deviation from Average: This is the percentage by which a certain value varies with respect to its corresponding average. If the value is greater than the average then it results in a positive deviation and if the value is lesser than the average then it results in negative deviation)
It is worth noting that
  • §  On an average 3 cases of rape were registered per day in Delhi from 2011 to 2013.
  • §  Post the Nirbhaya incident, the number cases of rape reported in Delhi in 2013 more than doubled from the previous year i.e. 2012.
  • §  The total number of cases registered in Delhi over the years 2011, 2012 and 2013 are 3.6% of the total number of cases registered across India while the female population of Delhi is a mere 1.33% of the total female population in India.
  • §  The number of Registered Rape cases in Delhi increased slightly from 2011 to 2012 by 23%. The effect of Nirbhaya incident is clearly visible from the change in cases registered in 2013 compared to 2012. The number of cases registered in 2013 increased by 131% compared to 2012.
  • §  The number of registered cases in 2011 and 2012 were much lesser than the average number of cases registered over the three years .The number of cases registered in 2013 is 68% more than the average cases registered in those years.


Cases Registered Per 1 Lakh Women
Year
2011
2012
2013
Average
Cases registered per 1 lakh women
7
9
21
12
Change from previous year
28.50%
133.30%
Deviation From Average
-41%
-25%
75%

It is worth noting that
§  From 2011 to 2012 the number of cases registered per 1 lakh women increased by 28.5% and from 2012 to 2013 it went up by 133%.
§  When compared to the average number of cases registered per 1 lakh women over the three years, the 2013 figure is 75% more. With the analysis of each parameter, the fact that reporting of crimes increased substantially post the Nirbhaya tragedy is reinforced.
Conviction Rate
Year
2011
2012
2013
Case conviction Rate for the three years
Case Conviction Rate (in %)
41.5
49.3
35.7
42

It is worth noting that
  • §  Case conviction rate increased from 2011 to 2012 and then again declined from 2012 to 2013.
  • §  For the three years on an average, 42% of the cases that completed trials resulted in conviction in the case of Delhi.
  • §  Conviction rate in Delhi rose by 18% from 2011 to 2012, but it declined by 27% from 2012 to 2013.

So after reading these statistics many many questions arises in my mind, who are these two thousand and ninety one people in Delhi who committed rapes post Nirbhaya? And who are these Eighty two thousand people in whole India? Where were all these during Nirbhaya episode? Had they also read about Nirbhaya case? Didn’t they felt same anger and hatred for those rapist? And still they raped someone, in some cases even children were not spared.

Most important question: Weren’t these eighty two thousand people part of our society? Obviously they were part of our own society, living in neighborhood or in same state and in same country.
So, what is wrong with our society that we are breeding rapists? (I am talking about only this one crime. There are many criminals which also comes from this society itself)

Let’s do some serious self-analyzation. We belong to a society, a society is group of individuals who are more or less similar to each other and ordered community, which has its accepted generic norms, cultural values and beliefs. Which are more or less similar.

Now let us talk about culture, what is our culture inspired from? It is inspired from religious beliefs & values. From the Kings & rulers who ruled us in history, some culture was given to us by them, when people from various parts of world mingle together there is little exchange of culture here and there.

Our culture was predominantly inspired from Hindu mythology and what we have seen in that is good & bad things which are mythological. And how it is depicted, the status of women in these mythological chapters? How these women were treated then?

We have seen first molestation episode in Mahabharta, where Dushasan molested Draupadi, his own sister in law, that too in public. And do not forget that her draupadis husband too treated her as objects, and that is the reason they used here in gambling to save themselves from losing, for sake of their own pride & ego they gambled dignity and self-respect of their wife. What do we understand from this? That you treat your wife as object, use her to save your own ego and respect.
And you can molest your relative, you can molest for fun, you can molest anybody’s wife to teach them lesson or to beat them in some game, you can “win” a women, and if you “win” her you have right to molest her in public also.

Ramayan also shows, Ravan kidnapped someone else’s wife whom he liked, but he never molested her. It was more about dominance & aggression then lust. After Ram, brought her back home, he still doubted her character, for sake of the society and his respect in society he asks Sita to give “angi Pariksha” to prove that she is “pure”. What does this means? That if women is kidnapped by some men she becomes impure? Or if some women is raped or molested she becomes impure? Why women is blamed or accused? What was her mistake?

Now come back to present, if a girl is raped, we blame her (we meaning society), no one will want to marry her, because she is now “impure” isn't it similar behaviour that we saw in Ramayana?
A girl gets kidnapped and raped in moving car, isn't this similar to Ravan kidnapping sita (though he never molested her)
A boy befriends a girl on social networking site, invites her to meet and “wins” her, later she is molested and raped by her own boyfriend and his friends, isn't this similar to molesting draupadi for fun. Because they had “won” her.
Rape is not only about sex or lust. It is more about dominance & power. It is about aggression and superiority. Rapist does not wants to be get rejected, in his mind he is superior and he can dominate a victim and rapes her. It is about his ego, male ego. And from where does this concept of male ego comes from?

It’s not only about Hindu mythology, even in Muslim mythology, women is always treated as secondary and weaker section of society. Virtually she does not have any say or hold over things (some Muslim dominated countries does not even give them rights to drive or vote)
Point is not which religious mythology you read or believe or know, point is why women is treated secondary, when will this society starts accepting the gender equality.

It is also not true that, always women was treated secondary, there were some great kings & revolutionary leaders who were real men, I real men! Chatrapati Shivaji Maharaj, a greatest Maratha warrior taught how to respect and treat a women, because he was trained by his mother, Jijamata.
Mahatma Phule went against all religious odds & rituals to educate his own wife and also other women in society, and because of Mahatma Jyotirao & Savitribai Phule today women are allowed to get educated.

Dr. Ambedkar fought single handedly for Hindu Code bill, and he fought against orthodox Hindus only, to give Hindu women rights to inherit properties and other working rights which were earlier denied by her own culture and society.

And there are many more such great men who gave more importance to educate & empower women, who tried to change the mindset and because of them today we talk about gender equality.
But I am optimistic, change can happen, that should start from our home, treat your mother, sister, wife or any female in your house respectfully. Kids learn what they see in their home. Do not stereotype a girl or guy, let’s not be a house where you laugh on boys who cry and scold a girl who plays cricket or who is outspoken among her siblings.

Educate children on sexual abuses, molestations. Teach them how to raise alarm in such cases and how to discuss these things with your parents. Teach your boy to treat a girl respectfully, this will happen only if he sees his father treating his mother or sister respectfully. But is that I am saying something very different, people too know these things, everyone knows this, but very few actually bother to implement this.

Lets us stay away from all negativities: Anger, Hatred, Jealousy & Lust. 
Find any way or method to be away from these negativities. This is primary cause for any crime that happens. This makes people inhuman.

Nevertheless, let us start this from now. Let us hope these numbers will go down sharply and will reach zero.


Wednesday, 9 December 2015

Change - Only constant thing in our life!

Yes, it is said that Change is only constant thing in our Life, and indeed it is.
I used to say such quotes are good to read but not easy to implement in real life. But when I look back, go back in time and try to figure out what special I did to reach where I am standing now, I realise that this quote makes sense.

A journey of a average student from his school days, to college days to post graduation and finally to the point when he starts working. You follow a same old routine for many many years and later world expects that you should be ready for change! Were we really trained or educated to do so? Does our academics allows us to be ready for change? Be willing to adapt to change?

Well, I feel we were put in the system where you enter as a young kid with many many questions & curiosities and later comes out as a plain, may be just a "well trained person" to do a corporate job  and carry the burden and office stress effectively.

But if you think more consciously, you will realise that it is nothing to do with academics system. Its all about shaking your fear out of you, try out things which you are afraid of. Stand up for something, voice out your opinion of something. Dare to be different and yet be happy. Rather not be afraid of doing something which makes you happy. We have ample of opportunities to do so, but we are reluctant to use them. It is not academics which makes you, rather it is way you are as an individual who takes up academics.

So how to change? Change pro actively, analyse yourself find out what are you afraid of. Face your fears and that will lead to a change. Change for your benefit, not for others. Change to adapt to new surroundings. Change to progress, change to improve. Change for better present and future.